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little snippets of advice for everyday challenges many people share

Naming Your Emotions
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Naming Your Emotions

Instead of feeling uncomfortable and overwhelmed by your emotions, learning to identify them not only kickstarts that self-soothing process, but also helps you to unpack where that discomfort is coming from. When you know how you’re feeling, you can start to get into the why

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How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
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How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

While self-awareness is good, like all things it needs moderation. The excessive self awareness and self-evaluation brought on when we compare ourselves to others can get us stuck in our heads, overthinking, and preventing us from actually meaningfully engaging in the present.

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4 Myths About Grief
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4 Myths About Grief

There are a lot of common myths about grief that get passed around as general wisdom in hard times. Today we’re going to unpack some of those myths to hopefully help you understand your grief a little better when it shows up.

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5 Reasons You Might Consider Ending a Friendship
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5 Reasons You Might Consider Ending a Friendship

Whatever way works for you and your situation, know that it is okay to feel a bunch of conflicting feelings about ending a friendship. You might feel relieved to not have to deal with them anymore. You might feel sad remembering the good times you had together. You might be angry at the way they treated you. Whatever you’re feeling, it’s okay.

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Setting Boundaries: Why You Should & What to Say
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Setting Boundaries: Why You Should & What to Say

While the boundaries you set might be clear and obvious to you, you’re a unique person! What makes sense to you might not be what makes sense to someone else. When you’ve decided on a boundary, make sure you communicate it to the relevant people so that everyone has the opportunity to honor the boundary.

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6 Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion
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6 Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion

The way that you treat yourself matters. Have you ever noticed the way that you talk to yourself? There are lots of reasons why we’re harder on ourselves than on anyone else. Some folks experienced abuse growing up that taught them not to expect any compassion. Others had caregivers who weren’t nurturing or who constantly criticized them. We hear a lot about self-love, especially in therapy spaces, but self-love isn’t always within reach for people. Starting with self-compassion can be a great way to build up your resilience and confidence.

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3 Things Your Inner Child Needs to Hear from You

3 Things Your Inner Child Needs to Hear from You

Have you heard the phrase inner child before? Do you know what it is? Well, it’s exactly what it sounds like! It’s the childhood versions of yourself that you carry with you now. Think about it: as you age you don’t lose those past selves. When you turn eleven, your ten year old self doesn’t stop existing. She’s just now tucked away in the heart of your eleven year old self!

But what does that really mean?

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What to Teach Your Child About Worry
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What to Teach Your Child About Worry

We’ve talked a bit about anxiety in children before, but what about regular worrying? How can we teach our children the difference between the two? And what can we do to help them develop healthy coping skills for both

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