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How to Tell Someone They've Hurt Your Feelings
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How to Tell Someone They've Hurt Your Feelings


Telling someone you’re upset by something they’ve done takes a lot of courage, so be proud of yourself for it. It can feel like a risk–like they could be mad or upset or maybe even react unpredictably.

It’s important to remember that while their feelings matter, you can’t control them and it’s not your job to prevent them from experiencing unpleasant emotions. It’s only your job to be honest about how you’re feeling and stick around to work through it if that brings up unpleasant emotions.

So how can you tell them they’ve hurt your feelings?

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How ADHD Presents In Adult Women
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How ADHD Presents In Adult Women

Did you know that women experience ADHD at the same rates as men? The mainstream understanding of Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is that it makes you hyper and unable to focus. However, that’s not the only way that ADHD manifests. Part of the reason that women are underdiagnosed with ADHD is that they typically experience symptoms in a less noticeable way.

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5 Coping Strategies to Try When You’re Feeling Anxious
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5 Coping Strategies to Try When You’re Feeling Anxious

Managing anxious thoughts is hard work. It’s not going to be a simple one-size-fits-all solution. And while your therapist will definitely be able to work with you to determine what coping strategies are the most useful for you, it’s helpful to have a few already in your back pocket to try.

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Naming Your Emotions
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Naming Your Emotions

Instead of feeling uncomfortable and overwhelmed by your emotions, learning to identify them not only kickstarts that self-soothing process, but also helps you to unpack where that discomfort is coming from. When you know how you’re feeling, you can start to get into the why

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How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
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How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

While self-awareness is good, like all things it needs moderation. The excessive self awareness and self-evaluation brought on when we compare ourselves to others can get us stuck in our heads, overthinking, and preventing us from actually meaningfully engaging in the present.

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4 Myths About Grief
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4 Myths About Grief

There are a lot of common myths about grief that get passed around as general wisdom in hard times. Today we’re going to unpack some of those myths to hopefully help you understand your grief a little better when it shows up.

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