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3 Tips to Manage Regret More Mindfully
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3 Tips to Manage Regret More Mindfully

We all have regrets. It’s normal to look back on moments from your past and wish you handled them better–it’s something that happens as we grow and learn. But allowing regret to live in your mind all of the time doesn’t help you, and in fact it could be holding you back. So how do you acknowledge regret without letting it take over? Why is it important to not let it take over in the first place?

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What Internalized Messages Do Your Still Believe About Yourself?

What Internalized Messages Do Your Still Believe About Yourself?

An internalized message is something we believe, unconsciously about ourselves. These messages and beliefs don’t come from within ourselves–while they may feel like undeniable qualities about ourselves, these internalized messages actually came from outside influences. They are the result of how we, as children, are able to interpret and understand the world around us, and the way we’re expected to behave in relationships.

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Quieting Your Inner Critic by Living your Values
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Quieting Your Inner Critic by Living your Values

When you live life and make decisions in alignment with your values, it is harder to find things to criticize about yourself! Making decisions by values takes morality out of our choices, you’re no longer asking “which choice is right?” you’re asking “which choice aligns most with my values?”

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Understanding Your Window of Tolerance
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Understanding Your Window of Tolerance

One way to help understand what’s happening when your emotions feel out of control is through the window of tolerance model. We all have ranges, or windows, of what we’re able to tolerate psychologically. In some states of mind, we’re better able to cope and regulate our emotions than others.

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How to Make the Most of Your Time Between Sessions
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How to Make the Most of Your Time Between Sessions

Therapy can be a powerfully transformative process and an integral part of our support system, but going to therapy isn’t where the work starts and ends. In session, you’re able to do deep emotional work and get tools to help support you while you’re out of session, but that out of session work is just as important as what you do while you’re there with your therapist!

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5 Ideas for Starting a Self-Development Practice
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5 Ideas for Starting a Self-Development Practice

Wanting to improve doesn’t mean you didn’t like who you were before. It can mean that you want to give yourself new experiences, you believe in your abilities, or even that someone inspired you to do things differently. Whatever your reasons, There are some simple steps you can take to start a self-development practice.

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